Whether you’re gathering inspiration or you’ve been proposed to, choosing your perfect engagement ring can be daunting. This special piece of jewellery will be symbolic of your love and something you’ll likely wear every single day, meaning it should reflect your personal style while also standing the test of time, in style and strength.
In this guide, we will take you through all the important considerations when choosing your engagement ring, from stone cuts and shapes that flatter your fingers, to thinking about your future wedding ring and the best stones for engagement rings.

What are the most popular engagement ring shapes?
Round
Round cut is the most popular gemstone cut, and is a traditional option when looking for a timeless engagement ring shape.
Oval
Oval cuts are an elongated round, which provides more surface area making it appear larger.
Emerald
Emerald cut stones have a rectangular shape that features step-cut facets. They can look both timeless and modern.
Cushion
Cushion cuts are square with rounded corners, giving them a softer appearance compared to Princess cuts.
Radiant
Radiant gemstones are a hybrid between an emerald and a round cut diamond, offering maximum sparkle.
Princess
Unlike Cushion cuts, Princess cuts are square with pointed corners, making them a modern choice for contemporary brides.
Marquise
Marquise cuts are elongated with pointed ends, and are perhaps the most unique shape for engagement rings.
Pear-shaped
Pear-shaped cuts are another shape that combines the styles of other popular cuts to create a unique shape of its own. Pear-shaped diamonds take inspiration from Marquise and Round cuts to form a teardrop shape.

What to consider when choosing your engagement ring?
As well as shape, there are several other things to consider when shopping for an engagement ring that can help you to choose your perfect ring.
Your future wedding ring
When selecting your engagement ring, it’s good to also picture what your future wedding ring might look like alongside it.
More intricate or unique engagement ring shapes may make it more difficult to find a wedding ring that fits perfectly and stacks well. This may mean you have to design a bespoke wedding ring, so you’ll need to consider this in your overall wedding budget.
Your finger shape
You may want to consider your hand and finger shape and size when choosing your engagement ring to help you find a ring that is most flattering for you.
For shorter or wider fingers, you may want to choose a cut that helps to elongate your finger, like oval, emerald or marquise.
For long and narrow fingers, you can add width with round, square or princess cuts to help balance your fingers.
Similarly, if your hands are thin or small, large stones may be overpowering, whereas broader hands and fingers may benefit from a larger stone, as smaller cuts may feel a bit lost.
Your budget
When it comes to setting your budget for your engagement ring, some say you should spend between one and three months’ salary on an engagement ring. Depending if this is pre- or -post tax, that would put the cost of an engagement ring at £2500 – £9500!
However, where did this calculation come from? It was actually first introduced by diamond company De Beers advertising in the 1930s, who suggested that a month’s salary should be spent on a diamond engagement ring.
The average salary has changed a lot since the 1930s, and engagement rings have changed in style too. There are no real rules when it comes to how much you should spend, so figure out a budget that you and your partner feel comfortable with and look for rings in that range.
Your lifestyle and sense of style
While it’s not the most romantic to think realistically when selecting the shape and size of your engagement ring, considering your lifestyle and even your work may help you to make a practical choice when it comes to your engagement ring.
While you may dream of a huge diamond, this may not be the most practical, especially for more manual jobs as they may get caught or prone to damage.
Similarly, your lifestyle and fashion sense may also help inform the stone shape and setting you choose, to ensure your ring suits your style, feel comfortable to wear and work cohesively with your other jewellery. From modern to maximalist, fashion-forward or vintage, find a ring that fits your aesthetic.

What stone to choose for your engagement ring
Diamond
Diamonds are the traditional choice for engagement rings. If you want a diamond ring, try to choose ethically sourced diamonds that clearly state their origins. Better yet, opting for a vintage or antique diamond ring. Alternatively, you may want to explore lab grown diamonds, as you’ll likely be able to get more for your budget.
When shopping for a diamond engagement ring remember to consider the 4 c’s:
- Cut refers to the faceting of the stone, and is responsible for how ‘shiny’ the diamond appears.
- Colour grades the opaqueness and tone of the diamond, with clear, or ‘white’ often regarded as the best.
- Clarity looks at any ‘imperfections’ or blemishes in the diamond.
- Carat measures the diamond’s weight.
Gemstones
Coloured gemstones have been a popular choice for engagement rings throughout history, possibly inspired by Queen Victoria’s emerald engagement ring in the shape of a serpent.
When looking for gemstone engagement rings, it’s important to consider the suitability of the gemstone for everyday wear. Look for stones that have a high rating on the MOHS hardness scale. Diamonds are a 10 on the MOHS scale, meaning they are incredibly hard-wearing. Gemstones like Sapphire, Rubies, Emeralds and Topaz vary between 8 and 9 on the MOHS scale, meaning they would make good engagement ring choices.
Stone like pearl, moonstone and opal are much softer, and more prone to being damaged. That doesn’t mean you can’t choose these for your engagement ring, you’ll just have to take extra care to ensure they don’t get scratched in daily wear.
Final thoughts
When it comes to choosing the perfect engagement ring to mark your betrothal, remember to select a ring that represents your style, is comfortable enough to wear daily and will work with your wider jewellery collection.
As a symbol of your love, you may even want it to combine yours and your partner’s love story, by choosing your birthstones or engraving your initials into the ring band to make it extra personal and special.








































































